Attention Parents!!! Never compare kids...
Attention Parents!!! Never compare kids...Parents play an vital part in the rearing of a child. parents should establish an model for their children. If a parent behaves carelessly or in a way that promotes their child's misbehavior, it can have a psychologically negative impact on your child.
Some parents do not even admit to some of the mistakes they make. But certain actions of parents can lead to behavioral difficulties and mental health problems in children. So if you want to improve your skills and strengthen your child’s self-esteem and confidence, let’s look in detail at some bad habits that parents can avoid.Most parents find it very natural to call their children by such names as 'smutty', 'unworthy' or 'unhelpful'. And for some parents, this may not seem like a big deal. But such an act is considered disrespectful. Serious words like "You will never tie your shoelaces properly" or "Will you always be late" can be used with your children even for small things. But did you know that these words have a psychological impact on a child's self-esteem, motivation, and well-being? This will lead your child to develop a consistent attitude or mindset about things and their abilities. Avoid comparisons: The only mistake all parents make is comparing their child to other children. Does the parent compare his or her child's abilities or accomplishments with any other child nearby? By doing so, it means that you are completely rejecting your child’s strength. Also, you weaken their confidence to undertake new skills or adventures. Every child has unique talents. Your child may not be very good at math. But he will be more talented in swimming or singing. So instead of insulting them by comparing them to another child, look at their uniqueness and appreciate it.Everyone makes mistakes and fails in life. But it does not continue throughout life. Children usually learn a lot from their mistakes. They are more confident and alert in decision-making. So, let your children enjoy their personal time.
Some parents do not even admit to some of the mistakes they make. But certain actions of parents can lead to behavioral difficulties and mental health problems in children. So if you want to improve your skills and strengthen your child’s self-esteem and confidence, let’s look in detail at some bad habits that parents can avoid.Most parents find it very natural to call their children by such names as 'smutty', 'unworthy' or 'unhelpful'. And for some parents, this may not seem like a big deal. But such an act is considered disrespectful. Serious words like "You will never tie your shoelaces properly" or "Will you always be late" can be used with your children even for small things. But did you know that these words have a psychological impact on a child's self-esteem, motivation, and well-being? This will lead your child to develop a consistent attitude or mindset about things and their abilities. Avoid comparisons: The only mistake all parents make is comparing their child to other children. Does the parent compare his or her child's abilities or accomplishments with any other child nearby? By doing so, it means that you are completely rejecting your child’s strength. Also, you weaken their confidence to undertake new skills or adventures. Every child has unique talents. Your child may not be very good at math. But he will be more talented in swimming or singing. So instead of insulting them by comparing them to another child, look at their uniqueness and appreciate it.Everyone makes mistakes and fails in life. But it does not continue throughout life. Children usually learn a lot from their mistakes. They are more confident and alert in decision-making. So, let your children enjoy their personal time.