Navratri has been reduced to just Dandiya Nights - A Real Life Dating Site?
The traditional celebration of navratri, once a deeply spiritual and religious occasion, seems to be shifting for many in modern times, particularly among Gen Z. What was once a festival dedicated to the worship of Goddess Durga, representing the triumph of good over evil, has now, for some, been reduced to a more social and trendy event. Dandiya nights, once a joyful expression of devotion, have become for some a platform for casual interactions, flirting, and a chance to flaunt their best outfits on social media.
In many urban settings, the focus for some young people seems to be more on the fun aspects—dandiya dancing, meeting new people and sharing stylish selfies—rather than the religious significance of the festival. For some, it has become less about devotion and more about socializing, akin to a real-life dating scene. The idea of “getting laid” afterward, as harsh as it sounds, reflects how the original essence of navratri may be diluted in certain circles.
The rise of social media has only amplified this shift. Posting pictures from dandiya nights, dressing up in vibrant traditional clothes, and showing off experiences have become part of the navratri experience for many. While enjoying the festival socially is not inherently wrong, it’s the sidelining of its cultural and spiritual essence that feels disheartening to those who value its deeper meaning.
In many urban settings, the focus for some young people seems to be more on the fun aspects—dandiya dancing, meeting new people and sharing stylish selfies—rather than the religious significance of the festival. For some, it has become less about devotion and more about socializing, akin to a real-life dating scene. The idea of “getting laid” afterward, as harsh as it sounds, reflects how the original essence of navratri may be diluted in certain circles.
The rise of social media has only amplified this shift. Posting pictures from dandiya nights, dressing up in vibrant traditional clothes, and showing off experiences have become part of the navratri experience for many. While enjoying the festival socially is not inherently wrong, it’s the sidelining of its cultural and spiritual essence that feels disheartening to those who value its deeper meaning.