Toxic Love: Do you suffer from stress bonds?P-2
Toxic Love: Do you suffer from stress bonds?P-2Ignore misbehaviorMany times, people trapped in trauma bonds, instead of understanding the seriousness of the problem and raising their voice against it, start ignoring the misbehavior of their partner or family member and make excuses for them. Decrease in self-esteemPeople often remain in trauma bonds because they begin to believe that they deserve this abuse or they feel that they are not better than this. Many times, less self-respect keeps people implicated in relationships where they do not have good behavior.Be afraidOften people victims of trauma bonds are afraid of the results. They feel that if he speaks against the misbehavior, he can take revenge on it or the problem in their relationship may increase. But perhaps you are making a mistake, keeping silent can increase the problem.Partner promises to changeIf your partner promises you that he will bring changes in his behavior or he will improve himself. But this does not happen. He abuses you in the coming days, then repeats the same thing and you give him opportunity again and again. So this will worsen the situation further. In such a situation, do not expect.