I'm 34 Years Old And Virgin - Woman Reveals Why No Séx

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According to 34-year-old Lauren Harkins, she has never had sex and is still a virgin. Harkins also shared the nicest thing about not having sex. According to Portland, Maine resident Lauren, she doesn't feel self-conscious or uneasy about being a virgin. Instead, she views it as a good experience. Lauren claims that she benefits from abstinence in a way that most women her age do not. "I feel like I have saved myself from a lot of problems and complicated situations," she remarked. Lauren feels that by making this choice, she can escape the emotional pain and "burden" of past mistakes that many individuals experience.

According to Lauren, she doesn't want to have sex right away. She stated that she would rather stay single than have sex with the wrong man and that she is content with her single status. According to Lauren, she would rather have a deep spiritual and emotional bond than be in a physical relationship. "People underestimate the emotional harm that casual sex causes," she said. I don't find this type of living appealing.
 
She said that she has no intention of jumping into an intimate relationship straight away, but she would like to experience one when the time is perfect.
 

The advantages of being unmarried
 
Lauren highlighted the benefits of being single, stating that it has made her happy and independent. She claims that she has never acted "just to do it" or under societal pressure. She claims that having no emotional "burden" of any kind is the greatest benefit of being single. She is also loving new experiences and living her life according to her own terms.
 

Relationship and marriage-related thoughts
 
Lauren claims that she didn't make the decision to stay a virgin until she was thirty-four. However, she has never prioritized dating. "In my teens and twenties, I realized I wasn't prepared for it. I'm ready for the prospect of not being alone now that I'm in my thirties," she remarked. She is not particularly interested in getting married and starting a family, but she is now a little more receptive to a committed relationship.
 
"Everybody has their own pace."
 
According to Lauren, everyone is entitled to live their life as they see fit. She asserts that "Everyone moves at their own pace, and there is nothing wrong with that." Her narrative teaches us that you may defy social expectations and have a fulfilling life on your own terms.
 
 
 

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